I'm back home in Corinth and unpacked from my adventures. The bottles of wine are in the wine rack, the souvenirs are mostly handed out, and the mate tea cup and straw have made their way to my "world travels" shelf. Of course, after all that traveling my immune system broke down and I got a little sick, but that's no real surprise, to me anyway. While recovering, I thought I would take time to reflect and share some of the major observations I made throughout the trip.
1. International travel is all about being flexible. It's fairly likely that most things won't go to plan, and that has to be ok. Control freaks (like me), you have to just say, ok today the universe is in charge and I'm just going to go with it. I might not eat lunch exactly at noon or the scheduled time...my flight might get cancelled and leave me with another full day in a beautiful city...my room might not be ready at exactly 3:00 PM. Flexibility is key to keeping everyone happy.
2. Lines don't really seem to work all that well in the countries we visited. I think lines are more or less a suggestion to folks in Chile, Argentina, and Brazil. Lines seem to work a little better for ticket counters and grocery stores, but for entering/boarding anything, like the plane or a ferry, it's just pretty much a free for all...whoever can push to the front, wins.
3. A friendly smile, hello, and asking how the customs agent is doing, tends to make your life easier in general. Although you may be exhausted from travel, I can assure you, those ladies and gentlemen working security and customs, appreciate you being nice and kind and patient, even when you feel like they're taking unnecessary measures. When we came back to the US, I had a guy even mention that he appreciated seeing someone who was nice and smiling. My bag didn't get dumped out and searched. Coincidence - probably not.
4. People appreciate you making an effort to at least minimally speak their language when visiting their country. "Thank you" and "I'm sorry" or "Excuse me" are really important words to know. Taking this trip has greatly moved learning Spanish up the priority list for me. It's a beautiful, useful language to know, and since I plan to visit South America again as soon as possible (preferably with Jeff in tow), it will come in handy.
5. A place where your purse has to be velcroed to the chair is a fine place to visit but not a place I'd want to live. During our "going away dinner" in Rio at a Brazilian steakhouse, the ladies of the group had hung our purses on our chairs since we were seated well into the restaurant. The waiters came by, took a piece of velcro and wrapped it around our purse straps, so purse snatchers couldn't grab them and run. I suppose if you live with it long enough, things like that become a part of everyday life. For someone who grew up not freaking out if doors went unlocked or if keys got left in the ignition, it's a bit of a shock. In the other places we visited, I was conscious of keeping my purse/bag safe, but the danger of having it taken didn't feel quite so "real" as when someone is strapping it down.
It was so exciting visiting new places, and putting another continent on my travels list. Thus far, I have greatly enjoyed all my travels, but there is something special about the countries I visited this summer. Maybe it's the empanadas, or the wine, or the tango music, or the beauty of snow-capped Andes when it's 60 degrees in Santiago...I don't really know. But, it's something anyone who loves to travel should experience.